A Deathwalker and a Horror-Obsessed Writer Walk into a Cafe... πŸ«–



'Ello Dabblers!

*Refrains from asking if you can believe we're halfway through November already*

This week sees a few significant dates and anniversaries, and hopefully some rest, pottering (pottery-ing, if you want, too?) and sunshine (both internally and environmentally)- I'm eternally glad you're here (in all senses, too, but it might make more sense soon).
Let's jump straight in. Go well πŸ’›
​C.x ✨

Wednesday 12th November

🎾 Social Tennis at Te Kura Hagley Park
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https://www.meetup.com/hagley-park-social-tennis/events/311668569​

πŸ”‹ The CHC EV Group Monthly Gathering​
https://www.facebook.com/events/817490484787763
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πŸ‡¨πŸ‡³ History of China 2: Ming Dynasty to Modern Day (5 weeks)​
https://www.cwea.org.nz/course-template/?eventtemplate=1595-history-of-china-2-ming-dynasty-to-modern-day&event=9833
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Thursday 13th November

🚢 A Walk in the Park (plus cafe stop)​
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https://www.meetup.com/christchurch-food-lovers/events/311890821​

🧢 Craft Circle (have dinner together or turn up after)
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https://www.meetup.com/christchurch-knit-sew-and-crafts/events/311877672​

πŸ‘―β€β™‚οΈ Leather & Lace 2025
​https://events.humanitix.com/leather-and-lace-2025​

🌌 Elemental Soundscapes: Dreamscape (journey 1 of 4)​
https://events.humanitix.com/elementalsoundscapes-dreamscape
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Friday 14th November

πŸ“‡ A selection of C. S. Lewis's poems​
https://www.meetup.com/christchurch-c-s-lewis-reading-discussion-group/events/310984281
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πŸ₯… Stick and Puck Session (Ice, not turf)​
https://ecom.roller.app/alpineice/booknow/en/product/874936
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Saturday 15th November

πŸ‘Ύ 10th Anniversary Canterbury Games Showcase and Playtest Event​
https://www.meetup.com/christchurchgamedevelopers/events/311400905
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πŸ’ Botanical Embroidery workshop
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https://events.humanitix.com/botanical-embroidery​

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Sunday 16th November

πŸͺ¦ Death Cafe (last one for the year)​
https://www.meetup.com/christchurchdeathcafe/events/311701641
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🀴 International Mens Day 2025 Ōtautahi (workshops, presentations, shared kai, and building meaningful connections)​
https://events.humanitix.com/international-men-s-day-2025-otautahi-christchurch
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πŸ› Let’s Make Curry Together (Japanese Vegetarian Curry) Picnic!​
https://www.meetup.com/takachef_kitchen/events/311637805
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Monday 17th November

πŸ₯£ Crystal Sound Bowl Healing Journey​
https://events.humanitix.com/crystal-sound-bowl-healing-journey-5gdzrhty
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πŸ‹ [Online] Whale Sound Journey (Thu 13th 8am + Mon 17th 7pm)​
https://wearetohora.com/products/ticket-online-whale-sound-journey
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πŸ‘˜ The Art of Furoshiki and Kimono (3 weeks)
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https://www.cwea.org.nz/course-template/?eventtemplate=1605-the-art-of-furoshiki-kimono&event=9885​

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Tuesday 18th November

😌 Zen Stories & Koan Reflections (weekly)
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https://www.meetup.com/living-waters-zen-group-chch/events/kgbxstyhcpbxb​

🫣 Classic Horror Films From the 1970s (2 weeks)​
https://www.cwea.org.nz/course-template/?eventtemplate=1598-classic-horror-films-from-the-1970s&event=9846
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Word Jumble: (hint: related to the events above, answers at the bottom of the newsy)

IURFKSIOH

CEMDAPERSA

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I saw you noticing that Death Cafe event, and I know you either curiously clicked through, or scrolled past real fast...
Either way, I've got news for you...

Do the damn hobby (before you die) πŸ’€
​Especially the one that you've been "wanting to do for yeeears"...

OK, that wasn't the point (but it also absolutely is).

Point is, if your peaceful curiosity around death and dying (the Greeks called this 'philothanasia') pulls you towards wanting to chat about near-death experiences, death doulas, and what your aging parents are up to, as easily as say, your fave sourdough recipe... perhaps you'd like to consider coming along to the cafe event at Civil & Naval on Sunday (10:30am).
Think of it as a hobby that reminds you why hobbies matter in the first place.
If we're all going to shuffle off this mortal coil eventually, why not get comfortable discussing it?

Additionally (or alternatively), the 5th annual Lifting the Lid - International Festival of Death and Dying is happening online this weekend - 50+ speakers, performance artists, workshops, short films, planning resources (honestly, check out the schedule, there's A LOT)...
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Sounds like an opportune time to gather knowledge and ideas from death workers and those who have created careers around death and dying support (hint hint πŸ‘€).

✨Death Cafe✨ is part of a global social movement built on the idea that getting comfortable with mortality helps you squeeze more juice out of your finite time here (and you can have cake).
Our Christchurch chapter was started by ✨Melanie Mayell✨ (who's also a photographer, author, and gratitude ambassador in addition to being a trained Deathwalker) in 2016, with the casual monthly meetups happening ever since!

More info on their FB pages here:

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🎿 Stop pining for Winter and hook your ski boots into these (seriously cool) vintage grass skis

πŸ”₯ Perfect your vege kababs with this purpose-built, absolute unit of a BBQ table​

🎷 You might bag this Tenor sax for a few tenners, if you're lucky

✈️ Become a low-key sky menace with this RC Plane kit

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Although not general hobby-fodder, it would be remiss of us not to mention one of our city's darkest historical events (especially also while on the topic of talking about death) - the Ballantynes fire (18th November 1947).
The silver linings here were the local and national changes to emergency systems and processes, as well as the 10,000 family, friends and public who attended the civic funeral procession (23rd November) to honour the 41 staff who perished.

Ballantynes's subsequent recovery and rebuild was described as "one of the most remarkable stories in New Zealand’s commercial history" by author, Gordon Ogilvie, who was tasked with marking their 150th Anniversary (sesquicentenary- what a great word) in 2005 (which means, even with earthquake disruptions as well, they've been around for 170 years, which is definitely remarkable!).

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Hopefully you make some time for yourself this Friday (Anniversary day, if you've just found yourself here and have no idea what's going on)- as always, feel free to tap the reply button and tell us what you're up to, we read every message πŸ€œπŸ€›

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πŸ‘‹ Share your community event [free]​​
🀝 Share your business or something for sale [paid]​​
🀘 Share your current hobby-obsession [free]
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Now go and update your will with who you're leaving your medieval flail collection to β›“

C.x​
​Publisher, The Dabbling​
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Ōtautahi’s Unofficial Hobby-Hypewoman


Fun answers:

FUROSHIKI

DREAMSCAPE

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